I do not know where you stand in your life, whether you are in your 30’s or 50’s or maybe you are a young teenager wondering
which way to take in your life. Life comes with social pressures, we have to deal with people on the daily basis if we work jobs to make a living and provide for our loved ones. I’ve seen friends die at a young age due to health problems such as cancer and these were individuals full of life who brightened up the world with their smile and lovable personalities.
They unfortunately lost their lives and some situations are just out of your control, that is just the fact of life. In life you have to take the good with the bad but what I could encourage you to do is to laugh and smile as much as possible and comprehend that no one is perfect and you don’t know the battles others might be facing so try to have as much patience as possible with people.
By no means am I telling you to tolerate disrespect from anyone but understand that a negative action from someone else has nothing do with you. People are miserable, stuck in jobs they hate,live a life with no passion or excitement or quite simply could just be people who aren’t happy with themselves and want to bring others down to their misery.
Believe me I’ve seen it all and been in environments full of people and have worked in jobs where you have to put up with people’s negative vibes and match their energy. I’m upbeat and would like to think I am very positive and try to laugh and smile as much as possible even if I got some personal problems going on.
No one deserves to get negative energy or get the feeling that I’m having a bad day. If someone is negative towards me I’ll just ignore it and match their energy, if you want to approach me with disrespect or not make any eye contact I will act distant with you. If you approach me respectfully and have an open approach I will be open with you simple as that.
I by no means am perfect , I have my own problems and family to cater to. But I’ll tell you what I won’t do and thats spend my life in miserable fashion. I know life doesn’t last forever so while I’m here I’ll live everyday like it’s my last and love others as much as possible. Even if we don’t click, my love for you will be the respect I have for you because we are all different and everyone is trying to survive in life. I wish I could live 100 years and hopefully it’s possible but that’s not in my hands because boy once you figure out the key to a good life gratitude will be number 1 in your life.
Stop looking at what you don’t have and look at what you do have, if you read this post that means you have a smartphone and likely have a place to stay. Be grateful for that, be grateful to be alive and do your best to love the people around you and everyone you across each day. Nothing guarantees us we’ll make it through a night and wake up the next day.
To conclude because the last thing I want to do is sound redundant is I want you to understand that you were put on this earth to live and love life as much as possible. Smile and laugh they are two of the biggest stress relievers not to mention laughing burns calories, be kind to yourself and others and don’t get defensive if someone insults you. That person is frustrated with themselves or might be envious that they can’t be happy like you. So please, do whatever you want to do with your life and find your passion. Find what makes you feel engaged and make a living from it, just be a lovable person and look at the bright side to everything. Hopefully my post can make a change in your life, Blessings.
D-NBA 